Strangers, again

This is one of the greatest, most amazing, most touching short videos i've ever watched.


just a quick review.
This video is about love relationship stages.
and i wanna review my relationship with him.


stage 1: the meeting
I met him, well, actually officially recognized him, on easter day (i think Maundy Thursday) 2009. 
dia masih cupu abis. kaya cinko. rambut coklat. kacau.
dan dulu yg ngenalin dia ke gw tuh si gibon.
dan gw sama sekali ga ada rasa apapun sama dia.
tapi emang sih. jujur, gw langsung nyambung aja sama dia.
sampe2 di gereja gw diomelin ma nenek2 gara2 ga bisa brenti ngobrol sama dia.. :)
what a memory.. :)
(oh no i couldn't find the photo! coz it was uploaded by gibon and her fb was deleted!!!! >.<)

yes, that was him with the white jacket. huahaahaha i can't stop laughing everytime i see his "look" on this photo!!!!! :D

stage 2: the chasing

secara gw sama dia start dari sahabat, jadi kita ga pernah sadar kapan kita mulai chasing satu sama lain. dan dia ga pernah ngaku kalo dia pdkt ma gw. huh. enak aja. 
pokoknya gw inget, kita mulai ada "apa2" tuh sekitar bulan oktober 2009... setelah gw putus dari pacar gw yg gila dan dia move on dari someone. and yes. that was the best part. soalnya gw belomfcukin' LDR dan semua masih smooth.. walaupun gw nebak2 terus sih sebenernya apa perasaan dia ke gw.

nah ini lagi jalan2 di genting jam 2 pagi. dia lagi sweet2nya nih. mau ngapain aja demi nyenengin gue. huheuehehehehehe... (btw, he was MUCH better than the previous pic right? ;P)

stage 3: honeymoon
well, honeymoon gw diiringi dengan tangisan. gw jadian pas ldr 3 bulan sama dia. terus pas balik malay juga cuma ketemu 2 minggu, abis itu dia pulang indo. DAN PARAHNYA STELAH ITU DIA CUMA STAY DI MALAY SELAMA 3 MINGGU BUAT PACKING. KARENA DIA BAKAL LANJUT DI NZ. fat the wack. ya berarti itungannya bukan honeymoon2 amat ya..paling2 gw merasa seneeeeeenggg banget pas kita ke malaka...

ah, jadi kangen.. :'(

stage 4: comforting zone

barusan aja gw tanya dia. "what stage are we now?" dan kita sepakat kita sedang ada di stage ini.

lagi "datar2" aja... hahaa..

ya gimana ga datar... uda ga ketemuan nyaris setaun.

beneran deh, kalo gw ga bener2 sayang sama dia, gw mgkn uda ga kuat.. :")

stage 5: tolerating

we once were in this stage. waktu itu kita masi berusaha stuck sama sumpah kita berdua, buat ga LDR. jadilah kita sering cekcok. dia mgkn masi belom terbiasa sama ldr. gw masi kebayang2 trauma gw sama cowok gw yg gila dulu. *sigh.

stage 6: downhill

ini yg paling ga enak. biasanya kita jadi ga peduli satu sama lain. gw makin sering ga enak ati. makin sering khawatir sama hal yg nggak2. makin sering nangis. 

stage 7: breakup

gue dua kali putus sama dia. dan jujur, pas gw putus sama dia. rasanya legaaaaa banget. ga ada lagi tu yg namanya khawatir2 ga jelas dan nangis2 tengah malem. tp leganya ga bertahan lama, seminggu kemudian, gw mulai kangen lagi sama dia. mulai nangis lg karena gw mesti maksa diri buat ga hubungin dia. dan gw bisa aja tiba2 teriak2 kesenengan kalo dia mulai sering nyari gw lagi..

stage 8: climbing up the hill

stage ini ga ada di short movie, tapi ada di hubungan gw ma dia. disinilah stage dimana kita mulai sadar (well, gw lah yang sadar. ga tau deh dia) kl kita ga bisa pisah. ga bisa kalo ga bareng2. dan dari stage ini, kita balik ke stage 2 dan mandek di stage 4....

:)

but im sure every couple has their own stages.

gotta go. :)